Who has to do what

Who has to do whatby: Josh PatrickPublished on: 15/10/2026

Josh Patrick rethinks what it means to leave a legacy. He explores why leaving decisions to your children can create an unexpected burden, from emptying the family home to preserving photographs, memories, and the conversations families avoid.

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Who has to do what

No one wants the stereo

No one wants the stereoby: Josh PatrickPublished on: 01/10/2026

Josh Patrick thought his revocable trust covered everything. But planning what happens after death means more than dividing assets. He reflects on family distance, inherited objects, and the difficult conversation he's afraid to have with his son.

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No one wants the stereo